You can love someone and still let them go….. losen the grips, and be the witness. ⛓️ What is for you will show up for you. Actions are louder than words, but the both are meaningful communicators of the reality you’re co-creating. 🫱🏼🫲🏽 We cannot control the limitation and capacity of others. Accountability and clear action—the enemies of resentment. Avoidance and passivity seem to be the breeding ground. Everyone is growing at their own pace. Some are willing to do more inner work than others. Sometimes they just may not want you in the way you do, but it’s okay. This is almost never really about you. Capacity and limitations, how very human of you. Everyone decides for themselves their level of willingness to actively participate, & the depths in which they are capable of creating a safe and meaningful space, one in which a relationship can thrive. Letting go means… learning to let go of control, or at least the illusion of control. All one can do is show up as fully as they can,with love in their heart, with every intention of creating deep and meaningful connection. With a willingness to explore, and the stamina to seek solutions and reparations after ruptures. And ruptures do happen, we are human beings after all. The idea is to find someone you want to mend with, and share in life with. And hopefully you can find someone where the two can go hand and hand. Not everyone is able to be vulnerable with their experience, not everyone is able to be vulnerable with you. Not everyone will be willing to do the work. To listen and adjust. And so on… you deserve a love where you feel met, where conversation leads to resolution which leads to learning, which leads to understanding which leads to healing, and deeper, safer communion. Don’t you? You can love someone and still be willing to let them go, if they’re unable to love you in the way you need.
So, release the grips. ⛓️
Be the lover who’s brave, and honest, and giving, and real. Hold your people with compassion, but do not let them use your giving heart as a door mat. Observe if they too Can dig, can know the cracks and corners the way you have learned to. That they too are willing and wanting to walk this road with you into the depths of what love can offer. And if not it’s okay. Losen the grip. 🙏
Is what you’re waiting for, also waiting for you, too? We’re either in this together, or not at all.
So losen the grips. ⛓️🤲🏽 sacar todo lo que puede afuera… como el primavera…
Be the observer of your experience, the witness to the ways other treat you. Losen the grips that make it hard to see clearly, by accepting that you never really had control. That what is meant for you will be. And what is not will not. Be the lover, to the best you can be. But be oh so willing to let go. Be oh so willing to let be free, what was never yours to begin with. 🤍
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